Ask the Editors—Mar 12, 2009
Posted by
Rachel Berg, Mar 12, 2009
This week's question comes from Tamyra in Baton Rouge, La., home of the giant Frostop roadside root-beer mug:
What types of trips and places would you recommend for someone wanting to go "solo" for a change?
First of all, congratulations on wanting to travel solo. I think that once you try it, you’ll find it to be a rewarding experience.
If you haven’t traveled solo before, I recommend easing into it, though. How? Plan a vacation where you know you’ll be interacting with others so that you don’t feel totally alone. For my first solo trip, I went on a yoga retreat where I stayed in a dormitory with other female travelers. Although I was on the trip by myself, I had ready-made roommates, and everyone shared meals together so there was always someone to talk to. If you don’t do yoga, there are plenty of spa getaways where you are placed in a situation where you eat and take classes with others. It’s a great way to travel and meet new people.
If you’re looking for something a little less structured, then I would recommend staying in small bed and breakfasts. Correspond with the owners before you go to get a feel for the place and its level of friendliness, and let them know you are a woman traveling on your own. When I did this in Alaska, the hostess of the B&B that I stayed in kindly introduced me to the other travelers who were staying there during breakfast. During the day, I went out and did my own thing, but when I came back at night, I was treated as part of the B&B family, and spent several hours in the common room talking with other travelers.
As for places to go, I would recommend picking somewhere with which you are somewhat familiar for your first time solo. I’ve done solo trips in both Hawaii and Alaska, for example, and since both were in America, I never had any language or currency issues to contend with, which made things very easy, yet both are sufficiently exotic that I really felt as if I was exploring someplace new. In Alaska, I rented a car and spent some wonderful days just driving through spectacular landscapes, going completely at my own pace, stopping whenever I felt like it, and coming back to the B&Bs each night.
Whatever you choose to do, bring a journal. It will always keep you company during your down time, and will provide you with a nice reminder of your trip for years to come.
For seven more tips on traveling solo, check out my recent blog entry.